Kol Dodi Jewish Spiritual Director Training
קול דודי
Kol DodiJewish Spiritual Director Training
20-Month Training
Applications Open July 15, 2026
Kol Dodi is grounded in IJS’s contemplative and contemporary core spiritual practices for cultivating awareness of mind, body and heart, and for attuning to the Voice of the Beloved.
The Institute for Jewish Spirituality is thrilled to announce the second cohort of Kol Dodi: Jewish Spiritual Director Training, a program that will prepare participants to serve as spiritual directors.
Kol Dodi translates from the Hebrew as “voice of my beloved.” Participants in this program will learn to accompany others on their spiritual journeys in one-on-one or group settings.
For a deeper dive into what is spiritual direction, and this unique program, please check out our information session below or read our FAQ.
Spiritual direction is a unique practice that offers a distinct set of skills, ethics, and practices which are helpful for clergy and other spiritual care providers.
The program incorporates multidisciplinary approaches to contemplative soul companioning, drawing from both Jewish wisdom and the field of spiritual direction, with the aim of supporting the formation of self as a Jewish spiritual director. Towards this end, Kol Dodi’s formation program and curriculum centers the theory and practice of Jewish spiritual direction.
This unique training includes:
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- Teaching from core and guest faculty
- Regular support and supervision from mentors
- Chevruta (peer-based learning partners)
- Small group experiential practice
- Mindfulness and embodiment practices
- Creative process and expressive arts
- Trauma-informed orientation to spiritual director formation
- Curriculum that integrates sacred activism into development as a spiritual director
The program is directed and taught by Rabbi Elisa Goldberg and Rabbi Nicole Auerbach. We will have several guest teachers, including Rabbi Myriam Klotz.
Mentors for Kol Dodi include Cantor Ellen Dreskin, Ashley Plotnick, D.Min., LCSW, Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife, and Rabbi Shir Meira Feit. Together, they will offer a curriculum grounded in relational mindfulness, sacred listening, prayer, and embodied wisdom, as well as creativity and liberatory imagination.
We are committed to providing a learning community that welcomes people from many racial, religious, cultural and spiritual traditions, as well as participants who embody sexual and gender diversity, disability and multigenerational perspectives.
Course Structure
Kol Dodi will run for 20 months, beginning with a five-day in-person retreat in April 2027 held at the beautiful Trinity Retreat Center in Cornwall, CT. The program will include one other in-person retreat and several zoom intensives in addition to interim work.
Included in Course Tuition:
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- Access to IJS course dashboard
- Ongoing Online Learning Sessions
- Regular meetings with mentor
- Chevrutah (peer-based learning partners)
- Small group experiential practice
- Mindfulness and embodiment practices
- Trauma-informed orientation to spiritual director formation
- Program Certificate upon completion of training requirements
- Three Zoom intensives:
- June 21, 2027 from 12 PM – 7 PM
- November 8, 2027 from 12 PM – 7 PM
- June 12, 2028 from 12 PM – 7 PM
- Two in-person retreats:
- The first will run from Sunday, April 11 through Thursday, April 15, 2027
- The second will run from Sunday, through Thursday, in March/April 2028, exact dates TBD.
Program Costs
Costs include all program components, including room and board for the two in-person retreats. The tuition level you select will be due in 4 equal payments over the course of the program. The level you choose will not have any bearing on your application. The higher tuition level enables participants to stay in a single room during the in-person retreats. The lower level enables participants to share a double room with another participant. All rooms have their own bathrooms.
Tuition and Single Room at In-Person Retreats
$11,500
4 Equal Payments of $2,875
Tuition and Shared Double Room at In-Person Retreats
$9,500
4 Equal Payments of $2,375
Application
Participants must apply and acceptance is not guaranteed. Requirements for admission include having at least six months’ experience being in Spiritual Direction before the program begins. Participants must also remain in spiritual direction for the duration of the program. If you need assistance finding someone to work with, here is a list of spiritual directors who completed Kol Dodi. Additional spiritual directors can be found on the website of Spiritual Directors International.
Applications are due by Thursday, October 29 at 3:00 PM ET and require a $120 application fee.
Financial Support is available upon request. Jews of Color, LGBTQ+, and people with disabilities will receive priority support. Please fill out the Financial Support Request Form.
If you have any questions please contact Rabbi Elisa Goldberg at elisag@jewishspirituality.org.
Applications Open July 15
Please submit your name and email address and we will inform you once applications open.
Faculty
Rabbi Elisa Goldberg
For over two decades, Rabbi Elisa Goldberg has accompanied others on their spiritual journeys as a spiritual director, professional chaplain, congregational rabbi, and educator. For many years, Elisa served as a spiritual director at the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College and the Jewish Theological Seminary. She taught at the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College on Rabbinic Ethics and Pastoral Counseling, and provided clinical supervision for students. She has served as Director of the Office of Rabbinic Placement for the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College, and led community chaplaincy services at the Jewish Family and Children’s Services of Philadelphia for fourteen years. Elisa authored a guidebook on spirituality and recovery with Drexel University and consults on the integration of spiritually informed care. She was honored to be the first woman to lead the Philadelphia Board of Rabbis. She maintains a private spiritual direction and pastoral counseling practice and provides consultation and coaching for rabbinic colleagues
Rabbi Nicole Auerbach
Rabbi Nicole Auerbach (she/her) is a rabbi, spiritual director, teacher of Jewish mindfulness meditation, and Hevraya member (CLP4). She is the URJ’s director of Community Growth & Strategy, focusing on bringing leaders of innovative and emerging communities into the Reform Movement. She has dedicated her rabbinate to creating opportunities for people to create and deepen relationships with one another, with Jewish community and tradition, and with sacred experience.
She is a co-author, with Dr. Ron Wolfson and Rabbi Lydia Medwin, of “The Relational Judaism Handbook: How to Create a Relational Engagement Campaign to Build and Deepen Relationships in Your Community” (Kripke, 2018).
Mentors
Cantor Ellen Dreskin
Ellen Dreskin is an ordained Cantor and Spiritual Director who uses sacred listening and a variety of resources and spiritual practices to help people connect non judgmentally to their own inner/spiritual journey. She has been in the field of faith for almost 40 years. She has extensive experience as a prayer leader, musical artist, storyteller, pastoral counselor, and educator in a number of Jewish settings.
Spiritual Directors International helps us understand spiritual companionship as “conversations about life in the light of faith.” It is an opportunity to connect more deeply and intentionally with one’s core/source/inner life, as well as what is infinite and eternal in both time and space. This exploration/spiritual practice takes place in the company of another who holds a non-judgemental, confidential space in which one’s spiritual story can be acknowledged and encouraged as a source of wisdom, nourishment, and support.
Ellen was introduced to mindfulness and other forms of contemplative spiritual practice through the Institute for Jewish Spirituality many years ago. In 2019, she completed a two-year course of study in order to become a Spiritual Companion, and now spends the majority of her professional time deeply engaged in this practice.
Rabbi Shir Meira Feit
Rabbi Shir Meira Feit is a musician, composer, ritual facilitator, and spiritual director who has facilitated countless circles of communal ceremony and song, helping people of myriad backgrounds connect with depth, wisdom, humor, and joy. Shir worked as a serial spiritual entrepreneur for twenty years in the Jewish Renewal movement, and in the Zen Peacemakers Order, co-facilitating their Bearing Witness Retreats in Auschwitz-Birkenau. Today, Shir offers teachings as an independent educator, performer, and spiritual companion, helping others to grow and flourish at the dynamic edge of spiritual emergence. Shir’s most recent offerings are influenced by the spiritual practice of parenting, interpersonal neurobiology, somatic psychology, neuroqueer theory, DJing, contact improvisation, and psychedelics. Shir lives with their family in New York’s Hudson Valley.
Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife
Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife (she/they) sprinkles sparkles, disrupts expectations, and offers blessings wherever she goes. She serves as Founding Kohenet of Kesher Pittsburgh and is a Core Faculty Member with the Institute for Jewish Spirituality; she also enjoys working with Jewish Studio Project and Kirva among other national Jewish organisations. Additionally, she delights in serving as a facilitator, teacher, life spiral ceremony/ritual creatrix, shlichat tzibbur, liturgist and songstress. Her work in these realms is informed by her lived experience as a queer, bi-racial, child-free Jewish person living with chronic illness, her belief that Book, Body and Earth are equal sources of wisdom, the quandaries she has encountered as a scholar of the Orphan Wisdom School, and her deep commitment to a thriving, liberatory Jewish future. Keshira received Kohenet smicha in 2017 and earned her BS (2000) and MS (2001) at Carnegie Mellon University. Though both the lands of the Osage & Haudenosaunee people (aka Pittsburgh, PA) and the Gadigal people (Sydney, AUS) feel like home, Keshira and her beloved have been in an extended period of travel since January 2023.
Ashley Plotnick, D.Min., LCSW
Ashley (she/her) completed training in spiritual direction through the Morei Derekh program in 2014. Along with her work at IJS, she is a co-trainer for the interfaith IFS-based spiritual direction training program at The Center for Engaged Compassion, where she also received supervision training. Ashley spent many years in congregational Jewish educational leadership, and in addition to her spiritual direction work, she now focuses professionally on her private psychotherapy practice and on working with clergy through the CCAR as a spiritually oriented counselor.
Ashley recently completed a Doctor of Ministry degree through Claremont School of Theology, where her research focused on the Shekhinah in the practice of spiritual direction. She holds Masters’ degrees in Social Work, Human Sexuality Education, and Jewish Studies. Ashley lives in the suburbs of Chicago with her husband and three children, her greatest loves and most essential spiritual practice.
Senior Retreat Faculty
Rabbi Myriam Klotz
Rabbi Myriam Klotz is former senior core faculty at the Institute for Jewish Spirituality (IJS) and retired after 23 years there in November 2024. She was the Founding Director of IJS Kol Dodi Jewish Spiritual Director Training and of Bekhol Levevkha JSD training at HUC-JIR; the former Director of the Spirituality Initiative at HUC-JIR; led inclusivity work at IJS including creating the LGBTQ+ Beit Midrash and the monthly LGBTQ+ sit (co-sponsored by Keshet!); co-created and co-directed Yoga and Jewish Spirituality Yoga Teacher Training at Isabella Freedman; and served on the Spiritual Directors International board of directors. She lives in Philadelphia with her wife Margot, son Raffi, and dog. Another son, Samm, lives in CA with his wife and cat.

